I think the only way you will override NIMBYism is not by fighting people tooth and nail over their neighborhoods and highly leveraged financial assets, but by changing circumstances so they are no longer NIMBYs. You'll win not by fighting, but by rendering moot the fight. 1/
As always, I have to point out that YIMBYs have succeeded more than I thought they would, so take my judgment with a grain of salt. Builder's remedy is an extraordinary thing, if it actually manages to overcome other forms of sand in the gears. 2/